We don’t let toxic people tell us who we are anymore.

Toxic parents expect children to be amazing without giving them any help.

Wounded inner children refuse to give up on someone’s potential.

How you tried to be loved as a child is most likely your stuck place in the present.

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Welcome! I’m glad we found each other and I want you to know that what happened to you growing up is sadly more common than you think.

There are many of us healing, growing, and telling our truth. – Patrick

 

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Healing Community Participant

I am a member of Patrick’s Healing Community and, just have to say this has helped me immensely! I have found myself sliding back from time to time into old patterns of shame and denial but, now when this happens I stop and redirect my whole thought process and Wow! I have had such a hard time finding a therapist that truly understands childhood trauma, toxic parents and the aftermath until I saw Patrick on Youtube one day.

So now I have gone from therapists who don’t really “get it” to the best! Having a whole community showed me there are many of us in. I can see how I’m not alone at all in this not only is Patrick there to answer questions and give me some tools but, a whole community. This is the best thing I ever did for myself.

– Anonymous

Group Therapy Participant

Patrick’s groups are absolutely wonderful! I’ve been in a group with him for almost a year now, and the group has massively shifted how I feel about my family and about my healing. Prior to starting his group, I felt stuck and was having a hard time holding my parents accountable – it was too easy to fall into the trap of feeling guilty for it.

Through the work I’ve done in the group, I’m starting to feel so much better than I ever have before – and so much further along in my healing. If you’re on the fence about whether or not to work with Patrick, I’d say DO IT!! Thanks Patrick for everything you do for trauma survivors!

– Anonymous

Therapist Training Group Participant

I am in Patrick’s training group for therapists. I also received professional consultations from him. I can’t say enough good things about Patrick. His guidance is spot on and helpful. He has many helpful resources and materials we can use for healing. His experiential tools are transformative.

Not only do my clients are benefitting from my work with Patrick, but I am also working through my own childhood trauma. He provides opportunities and a safe space for survivors of childhood trauma. He is genuine, kind, and a great role model for me.

– Anonymous

1x1 Therapy Participant

I am not going to exaggerate. But this man literally saved my life. I am so grateful to have a therapist like him when life felt so excruciatingly painful, overwhelming, shitty, and unfair growing up as a trauma survivor of two narcissistically removed parents. His clarity and expertise on childhood trauma finally stopped me from gaslighting myself and continuing with abusive self-talk and self-abusive life choices.

It is not easy work, and took me consistent effort and dedication to do this work with him, but I couldn’t be more grateful for the resources he provides as both an individual and group therapist to me, and the life I have right now and continue to have. Patrick is truly a life-saver.

– Anonymous

Healing Community Participant

When I first subscribed to Patrick’s Monthly Healing Community I was nervous, I knew I was seeking more resources, community and personal connection in my healing journey but I didn’t know what to expect. Then, the Healing Community started becoming for me and my inner child a safe space to try out being seen and asking questions.

Feeling heard, welcomed and encouraged by people who understand and are on a similar path is so validating and wonderful. I also love the courses included in the membership and the weekly journal prompts, they are filled with valuable information and practical tools that are making a huge difference in my life.

Having access to all of these resources and support helps me stay on track and I feel a lot less lonely in my journey. So grateful and happy I subscribed!

– Anonymous

Healing Community Participant

Patrick ensures that the Q&A sessions are welcoming and low
pressure. It’s totally ok to just chill and listen – and there is tons
of worthwhile content to listen to! If you are feeling a bit isolated in doing this work, I think these sessions will help you to feel that your struggles are normal and shared by many others.

– Anonymous